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Rethink your boundaries and consider how your choices with men are affecting you and contributing to the type of men you are attracting. Am I engaging in a casual hookup to prove something to myself or someone else? What are my boundaries and do I state them and honor them? Am I doing things that I really don't want to do or don't feel good? Am I allowing him to lead and maneuver through a bunch of moves rather than really being in tune with me/my body? Am I more focused on performing or pleasing him rather than on my own physical pleasure? Will I be totally OK and not disappointed AT ALL if I don't hear from him tomorrow or ever again? I totally get that when hormones start firing (and especially if you add any kind of alcohol into the mix), your mind is not always that clear.

You may feel disappointment, sadness, anger, guilt and/or shame because a ton of oxytocin has been released without any kind of emotional connection present with the other person to be a container for it. I see a lot of pain and upset around feeling rejected after being so vulnerable, and anytime you get naked with someone, you are vulnerable!

If you relate to this, I want to tell you that you didn't do anything wrong.

If you think you are totally capable of having a meaningless romp or really aren't into the guy, oxytocin may change everything!

We naturally become more sensitive and our ability to check out decreases.

If a woman feels smothered by a guy she does not really like all that much, she is more likely to chalk it up to a good time and move on. More often, I see women regretting casual hookups when they attempted to convince themselves they were OK with it (when they weren't).

Ladies, your body is sacred and your sexuality is an extension of your Spirit.

When a woman engages in a casual sexual encounter and does not ask for what she wants, stop what she doesn't want or feels rejected in any way, she is likely to experience what I call a post-hookup hangover.