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Men and dating mistakes

They become so caught up in trying to find even the most minute sign of discomfort that they end up being unable to relax and actually interact with her.

But the vast majority of the time, the correct answer is the obvious answer.

This is one of my pet-peeves: people who think that the keys to dating are complicated mind-games and arbitrary rules.

Some schools within the industry take it to a darker, more psychotic place where men should be manipulative as possible, the better to keep her constantly insecure in the relationship and unsure of her standing; after all, if she’s never sure if she’s done something wrong, she’ll be that much more eager to please you.

The Rules plays its own counterpoint to the misogyny that’s all too present in PUA society; it deals in slut-shaming bullshit and old-fashioned ideals with rules like “Never call first and rarely return his calls”, “don’t see him more than once or twice a week” or “no sex before exclusivity”.

Here are five reminders of what not to do in the presence of Mr. Sure, we don't need a man to be happy, but if you don't want one, why are you on the date in the first place?

Many women do this to appear laid-back and not needy -- but it backfires.

The only real approach invitation one needs is a genuine smile, but many guys treat approaching a woman as though they were trying to make a carrier landing – look for hair flipping, the look-away-look back AND the head nod, now call the ball….